For chrissakes, I'm talking about of us getting laid here!
I'd really appreciate if we could all stop asking "How tall are you?
There's a good chance your petite new love interest is a "firecracker," as some say, which will make you love her even more.6. The arm on her head makes her like your kid sister, not your lover.9. She is really good at crawling into small places, like the window of your apartment that you're locked out of. It's actually pretty scary to be lost in a crowd of people taller than you, so hang on tight and don't let go.14. So, when you do finally meet her on your first date, do NOT tell her that she looks so much taller in her Instagram photos.
(With good cause: Women over six feet receive forty percent fewer messages on Ok Cupid than their 5'4" counterparts.) Ask any super-tall woman about her dateless teenage years and the number of times a well-meaning adult said to her, "The boys are just So how do we get over our collective height hangup? After all, it's nearly impossible for we amazons to find a partner who meets the classic 8-percent height differential, so we've to get comfortable dating smaller men. So let's first take a basic lesson from the world of super-tall women: Do not approach a leggy lady and fucking open with "How tall are you? " Even if her height is part of her appeal, wait until fifth-date post-coital bliss to say how much you love it.
Which brings us to your more general task: neutralizing her insecurity by conveying that bigger is . That you don't feel like less of a man when you're with her. Some of it boils down to you owning a more classic masculinity—going in for the kiss first, deciding the dinner location, simply being more assertive.
To be bigger than men is to worry that you'll turn them off.
Webb found that it isn't just men lying about their height online, women do, too—to appear shorter. I've taken to giving my whiskey a single swirl, looking down my nose and saying slowly, "You are boring me. You would never walk up to a woman and open with, "What's your bra size?That is until I woke up one morning and thought to myself how crazy it is to be ashamed of something that not only was out of my control, but something that made me individual and unique.I've learned to appreciate sticking out a little, and if anyone is intimidated by a tall girl, that is THEIR problem, and not mine. Being in the top percentile of height is the most swag-tastic statistic you can be in. The average woman is eight percent shorter than her male partner.Of course the ability to search for people who meet our criteria is part of the appeal of online dating.The first question most strangers ask me is "How tall are you? In one survey, about half of collegiate men required their date to be shorter, while a monstrous nine of every ten women said they would only date a taller man.