And in the absence of giving yourself an entire personality-ectomy, the smartest thing you can do is a) be aware of some of your tendencies to dominate and b) find a partner who is cool with them.
Never took initiative to plan anything fun and when he did something would always come up and we had to go to Plan B. I am an intuitive Pisces woman with 20 yrs experience helping people understand and work through relationships, dating, and career concerns.They would sooner wait to get a written notice in the mail that you’re really, truly interested in them than to follow up too much and potentially make you uncomfortable. So you’re not wrong to curb a little bit of that domineering side.Where you’ve gone astray is that when you’re with a beta male, you’re ALLOWED to be more alpha.When you’re done reading this, give him a call to find out if he’s around this weekend. I suspect that’s all you’ll need to seduce him into becoming your boyfriend.
And if, in fact, he’s just not that into you, you’ll figure that out quickly, too.Basically, WHD was written for alpha females who want to date alpha males.It was a way to open your eyes about how the men you’re the MOST attracted to don’t necessarily want to date you in return.Beta guys are the ones who have more kindness than confidence. They’re so passive as to be, well, almost feminine in nature.They are not going to put themselves on the line for rejection until it’s 100% clear that you like them.Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?