It’s the woman who strips away her defenses and her pretenses and drops her guard. You don’t have to play hard to get or be afraid you’ll look to eager.If you’re happy to be with him, say so, “I feel really excited to be here with you,” – even if it feels scary and like you’re “putting yourself out there.” You’re not.
“You need to realize that, even if you have a good job, it’s not automatically going to get you the girl or the guy.” Incorporating passion and excitement into your conversation is key during a career transition.
By changing your perspective, you can control how people view your situation.
Online dating is different from what happens when you meet someone organically.
People behave differently when they can hide behind technology.
A man can sense pretense right away, and it can prevent you from truly connecting with his heart…which can then be a hit to your self-esteem.
Think about it: do you connect more with someone who acts like she has her life totally together and is perfect, or with a friend who isn’t afraid to bare her soul to you and show you she’s human…just like you? They long to relate to another and feel a connection just the same. And being with a woman who isn’t afraid to show it is a breath of fresh air.
But we’re all prone to getting nervous when we meet someone new, especially when we really like them and think they could be “the one”.
We want to appear confident, so we plan ahead with witty lines and clever banter trying to show a man that we’re “cool”.
You’re expressing a genuine, authentic emotion from the heart (if you really ARE happy to be with him! It’s not about putting on a show and letting a man think you have no fear whatsoever.
Instead, it’s about opening your heart, being vulnerable, having a good time and not needing to know how it’s all going to turn out…
Step 2: Let Go Of Expectations Have you ever been on a date and, before dessert arrives, you’re already wondering if he’s going to ask you out again or whether you said something to turn him off?