So after the game, you should suggest a nice spot for a nightcap or cup of coffee where people might know you.
Or maybe you can take the long route home and drive by your old school, your place of employment, your uncle’s pizza shop, or the closed-down theater where you saw “Swan Lake” when you were a little girl and your dream of attending the Juilliard began.
While rarely as nerve-racking as first dates, second dates still bring with them their share of stress.
That’s not how you build a foundation for a successful, loving future. If you want to see if he is long-term material, you have to inject some of yourself into each date, too.Maybe you let him pick the restaurant to begin the second date, and maybe you base the date on his love of basketball.Then once the ice is finally broken, you’re both still so wound up that everything seems hilarious and you spend the rest of the night with huge smiles plastered on your mugs.The first touch or kiss from a new guy carries an amazing tingle, just like the quiver you felt the first time a guy slid into second base or let his fingers wander within a few inches of third.The second time’s the charm when it comes to dating.
First dates often begin with so much tension and worry that it’s hard to let your mind go and just have a good time.A kiss is one thing created by two people, so your kiss with him will always be unique to your relationship.Keep some part of you and some part of him new for the third, fourth and fifth dates. You wouldn’t raise your own bid at an auction, so why hand him the jackpot when he will be thrilled with two oranges?He is already sold on the amazing pleasures to be found in every inch of your body.The second date can often determine whether this goes the way of a relationship or a fling.There aren’t quite as many opportunities to mess up in little ways, but there are more opportunities to commit serious faux pas.