To get around this, I typically use a range of gestures or expressions when first meeting a woman.
Some of my favourites include imitating her body language in a funny way, for instance by crossing my arms and pretending to pout to mirror her behaviour and get a laugh, or pushing my pointer fingers into the corners of my mouth to make a ridiculous smile that usually makes her smile, too. Go and ask any Western girl if she’s kissed a guy in the club before and she will definitely say yes, whereas many many many Asian girls haven’t.
This is because kissing doesn’t mean the same thing in Asia – in the West it’s ‘ok’ to make out with guys in the club, but in Asia doing that would have her labeled a dirty girl.If a bunch of Westerns go out to the club and one of the girls meets a guy she likes and is making out with him then the rest of the group won’t judge her too badly for it.Negs don’t work very well in Asia because the way people form rapport, and relate through humour, is slightly different.In the West, when you ‘neg’ a girl you are directly stating what your value is by showing willingness to break rapport.Russo holds a Master of Science in marriage and family therapy.
Hey guys, Kane here, your Chinese based dating coach.Asians almost never break rapport, they merely become neutral, which has a lot to do with saving face for yourself and the other person involved.Due to the language barrier between Westerners and Asian women, verbal communication often falls short.While many Americans are into casually dating several people at once, Europeans date to get into a relationship with one person—often right away.For instance, in England, there really isn’t much of a dating trend, and accepting a dinner invitation from a man implies commitment.Unless you have been under a rock for the last ten years, you’ve undoubtedly heard of “pickup” and “pickup artists”.