This giving is quite simply being taken advantage of by both sexes through stealth, manipulation and through victims unwittingly giving their "consent" to have their energy drained.
I say consent is given because the victim must another to drain in order for it to occur.
Please read this article if you recognise you may be an unwitting victim of a romantic energy vampire.
I also call these types of people a Trap, or a romantic trap that as women, we can be all too susceptible to - and I speak from experience on this one.
If you have had sex magic performed on you, you will know the difference.
A master at this will use certain (solar plexus chakra) energy on you to attract, charm and subdue, almost like a form of hypnotism.
Most romantic vampires are adept at the dark art of sex magic, which is also used by satanic types and those involved in ritual and other dark arts.
This is also the TRAP component of the romantic vampire, and it doesn't help at all if he is good looking and powerful, and the female is lonely or vulnerable.
These men, in my experience, are quite informed and adept at Sex Magic.
Sex magic is not normal sex and not a normal sexual attraction - it is much more pronounced than this.
Are you picking up a squid as a metaphor for different and unique?
I work a 2nd shift job and on the weekends so it limits the time I can First of all I'm bi, so if you're a guy or girl; I don't care.
Women will typically do this exclusively through conversation and attempting to elicit endless sympathy or aid, whilst men will typically do this exclusively through the sexual relationship, which will involve Power over their victim in a sexual context and in all aspects of their life. Women pray on other women through false friendships, and men pray on women sexually through false love.