The fact is, you’ll never quite get it right, and you’ll probably just end up looking like some former 70s disco legend. However, you’ll never compete with a younger man on that score, and to be perfectly honest, that isn’t what she wants from you, anyway.She’s hoping for the benefit of years of experience and the sensitivity it imparts… [Read: When do age differences matter in relationships?More success, more sophistication, a great sense of self - the benefits of dating an older man are as blatant as they are numerous. For more of the obvious perks of dating an older man, read on below...
However, we have already explained how symbiotic the relationship between an older man and younger woman is, and you certainly don’t need to listen to the nay-sayers.If you start listening to the rumors and let them put you off the relationship, shame on you. Please, please, please resist the urge to start adopting young fashions in an effort to fit in with her age group. It suits your age, and whereas fashion is just for the season, style is eternal. Viagra and energy drinks consumed, you are determined to prove to her that age is no barrier to being an energetic love god.Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.This doesn’t mean that you have to talk at length about quantum physics or sub-Saharan politics.Use your sexual sophistication to give her what easily may be her first true orgasm, and have her begging to come back for more. Yes, you’re older, you probably have a better career than any of the younger guys she knows–and consequently, a lot more money.
However, don’t try to take advantage of this fact to secure her affections.
There may be a temptation for some older guys, with their wealth of experience and knowledge, to see themselves as superior to the girl they are trying to woo.
Even if her experiences aren’t as grand as your own, don’t play them down.
Gold diggers do not make for a long and healthy relationship, and she may end up costing you a lot more than money.
[Read: 7 date ideas men love but women actually hate] #7 DON’T make her feel inferior.
They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.