Sometimes you just get a gut feeling that something isn’t right…
Maybe he isn’t showing you the level of respect you expect from a man or maybe he completely ignores your boundaries and personal space.
There’s a chance he’s either seeing other women or doesn’t see you as important enough to take some time out of his busy schedule. The hardest part about the “bad” guys that should send you running… But trust me, as soon as you separate yourself from people that are toxic, your life will change for the better. You might be confusing being compatible with experiencing an up-and-down emotional rollercoaster.If you always feel bad, tense or nervous about him leaving or him not wanting you anymore, when he shows you any sign of approval and signal that he’s sticking around, it can feel extremely relieving. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’ll just meet a perfect man and everything will be sunshine and daisies for the rest of your life.Whether they are this extreme or just capture these emotions to some degree, it’s “I’ve been dating the same guy for about almost a week now.The thing is, I have a habit of dating jerks, losers, and just bad guys. yet, but I want to know for sure if there are any signs that I should ditch a guy before it’s too late, I’m obviously missing them.and sure enough, he winds up being disrespectful, rude or even a downright womanizer? He starts arguments and fights, and not just with you.
If you let yourself stick around that negativity it will affect your own vibe, bringing your own mood down and leaving you feeling drained and unhappy. If you have long-time friends voicing “red flags” about a guy, listen to them. Sometimes it’s really hard to see something negative going on in your relationship when your own emotions are caught up in it.
You think to yourself, Sometimes some of the most “obvious” red flags are completely ignored and the consequence is a broken heart.
The thing is, a lot of women are conditioned from a young age to accept these red flags as normal. I don’t care if he lies about his age, or if he conveniently forgets to tell you important things (like a business meeting…).
Did you ever have a boy tease you on the playground relentlessly, only to be told that he was “just teasing you because he likes you”? If he lies to you for any reason, he should be out of your sight and out of mind.
OR Have you ever had a gut feeling that something was shady… If he gossips about information you’d rather not share, touches you when you don’t want it, or tries to push you into things you don’t want to do… If you do, you’re only setting yourself up for heartbreak and frustration later on down the road.
Red Flags has all the fun of a magazine quiz combined with the expertise of psychologists who specialize in the techniques used by the police to profile criminals.