They don’t return your phone calls, they don’t keep a single promise and you’re starting to suspect that they might be involved with someone else.The target is left baffled and confused and wondering what they did wrong to cause such an abrupt turnaround.
They will talk and think about them constantly, they are euphoric.This is as close as a Narcissist will ever get to feeling love.Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status.They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.Narcissists become bored easily and what usually starts happening in their heads at this stage, is that the void begins to emerge again.
The high they were feeding off of is waning and they begin to question your worthiness, that perhaps you weren’t so special after all, because if you were then the void wouldn’t still be there.
In this second phase, the mask comes off and the Narcissist starts to reveal their true colours.
The shift could be gradual or almost seemingly overnight.
I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.” Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others.
They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have.
They are hyper-vigilant in their pursuit and will project the perfect image that their victim wants them to be.